In The Servant-Hood: It’s Also About Me

First published April 30, 2009

The Bible is explicit about the subject of selfishness [Phil 2:3]. And it’s a big enough concept that there are gobs of sermons, books, talks, exercises, and discussions about the problems of leading a selfish life. One obsessed with “Me! Me! Me!” can even find him/herself down a road of destruction, perhaps dragging others along.

However, far too often faithful saints find themselves overworked, stressed, and ignoring primary responsibilities of self and family. I know an adult Christian man who said to me that he had hated is father for never spending time with him as a boy. His father was a well-loved church elder who spent the majority of evenings in church meetings, in sessions counseling parishioners, teaching a Bible study, and on the phone. This may be an extreme situation, but you get my point.

Here are three real life facts: 1) an unhealthy tree does not consistently bear good fruit. 2) There is wise instruction from airline attendants. “In case of a loss in cabin pressure, oxygen masks will drop down. Passengers with small children put on your masks first, and then attend to the children.” 3) Life guards at the beach have the confidence, training, and experience to swim at a level high enough to save others who struggle in the water.

Together, what does this mean? Our own spiritual life needs to be mature enough to bear good fruit. “…Whoever serves, let him do so as by the strength which God supplies….” (I Peter 4:11a). Our own spiritual life needs to reflect proper priorities. “‘And why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?’”(Luke 6:4`) And, our own spiritual life needs to be strong enough to help others. Basically, there needs to be enough attention to “Me” in order to effectively serve “Others.”

So, start with “Me,” by focusing on your spiritual nourishment. But don’t stop there. Maturing does not come from remaining a seedling. Through your prayer life, Bible study, and input from trusted mature believers, kingdom work can be revealed to you. Next consider your closest sphere of family and friends. Serving begins in these relationships. Then expand your servant-hood as you face challenges and blessings each day. Your life will be overflowing with good fruit!
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Oh gracious Heavenly Father, I am your child who desires to serve. Daily I face the challenge of prioritizing. Please help take care of me first, then as I mature in you, let me serve others to your glory. In Jesus’ name, amen.